10 to 12 month milestones

Milestones are reference points for what most children do. We never score or compare.

Feelings & Comfort

  • Plays a familiar social game with another personBy 12 months
  • Checks your face to decide how to react to something newBy 12 months
  • May get upset at goodbyes, and settles with you or a familiar caregiverBy 12 months

Limits & Cooperation

  • Understands “no” and pauses or stops when you say itBy 12 months
  • Takes turns in a back-and-forth game, like rolling a ballBy 12 months

Talking & Understanding

  • Reaches toward a wanted objectBy 10 months
  • Points to communicateBy 10 months
  • Waves “bye-bye”By 12 months
  • Shows or gives an object to another personBy 12 months
  • Responds to simple words and phrasesBy 12 months
  • Uses “Mama” or “Papa” to mean that parentBy 12 months
  • Says one or two words, like hi or byeBy 12 months

Speaking Clearly

  • Copies speech soundsBy 10 months

Early Literacy

  • Chooses a book to share with youBy 12 months
  • Points to pictures they like in a bookBy 13 months

Exploring & Discovering

  • Explores a toy in different ways to find out what it doesBy 12 months
  • Points, looks or makes sounds to ask you about thingsBy 12 months

Logic & Numbers

  • Puts something in a container, like a block in a cupBy 12 months
  • Looks for things they see you hide, like a toy under a blanketBy 12 months
  • Notices when an amount changes, like more or all goneBy 12 months

Pretend & Imitate

  • Copies or starts social gesturesBy 10 months
  • Copies what you just did with a toyBy 12 months

Doing It Myself

  • Drinks from an open cup while you hold itBy 12 months
  • Holds a spoon and tries to feed themselvesBy 12 months

Nara is educational and doesn’t assess or diagnose. If you’re worried, talk to your child’s doctor.

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