2 year old milestones

Milestones are reference points for what most children do. We never score or compare.

Feelings & Comfort

  • Recovers after separation within about 10 minutesBy 36 months
  • Shows they care when someone is upset, like bringing them a toyBy 36 months
  • Calms down with your help, like a hug or slow breaths togetherBy 36 months

Limits & Cooperation

  • Plays beside other children and sometimes with themBy 30 months
  • Follows a familiar routine when toldBy 30 months
  • Notices other children and joins their playBy 36 months
  • Stops when you warn them about something hotBy 36 months
  • Waits a short time for a turn, with your helpBy 36 months

Talking & Understanding

  • Follows a two-step directionBy 30 months
  • Says about 50 wordsBy 30 months
  • Combines words oftenBy 30 months
  • Uses two or more words with an action wordBy 30 months
  • Uses plural wordsBy 30 months
  • Uses verb endings such as “-ing” and “-ed”By 30 months
  • Gives a simple reason for somethingBy 36 months
  • Talks in a conversation with at least two back-and-forth exchangesBy 36 months

Speaking Clearly

  • Uses the speech sounds p, b, m, h, w, d, and n in wordsBy 30 months
  • Produces most vowel sounds correctly in wordsBy 30 months
  • Speech becomes clearer in conversationBy 30 months
  • Is understood by other people most of the timeBy 36 months

Early Literacy

  • Points to four named picturesBy 30 months
  • Names at least two picturesBy 30 months
  • Turns book pages one at a time during shared readingBy 30 months
  • Names the action shown in a picture or bookBy 36 months
  • Names 4 pictured objectsBy 36 months
  • Notices letters, especially the first letter of their own nameBy 36 months
  • Tells parts of a favorite story in their own wordsBy 36 months
  • Sings songs and says rhymes on their own, like while playingBy 36 months

Exploring & Discovering

  • Asks “why” and “how” questionsBy 36 months
  • Keeps asking “why” when an answer doesn't explain enoughBy 36 months

Logic & Numbers

  • Shows understanding of at least one colorBy 30 months
  • Solves simple problems, like standing on a stool to reach somethingBy 30 months
  • Gives you just one when you ask for oneBy 36 months
  • Notices patterns and arranges things in patternsBy 36 months
  • Counts things in everyday life, sometimes skipping numbersBy 36 months

Pretend & Imitate

  • Uses objects in pretend playBy 30 months
  • Pretends to care for a doll or stuffed animalBy 30 months
  • Links pretend actions, like pouring pretend cereal and then feeding a stuffed animalBy 30 months

Doing It Myself

  • Takes some clothes off, like loose pants or an open jacketBy 30 months
  • Puts on some clothes, like loose pants or a jacketBy 36 months
  • Uses a forkBy 36 months
  • Gets ready for what's next, like fetching a coat to go outBy 36 months

Knowing Myself

  • Uses early pronouns such as “me,” “mine,” “you,” “I,” or “we”By 30 months
  • Gets another person’s attention with words such as “look at me”By 30 months
  • Says their name when askedBy 36 months
  • Notices and asks about differences between people, like skin color or hairBy 36 months

Nara is educational and doesn’t assess or diagnose. If you’re worried, talk to your child’s doctor.

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