13 to 17 month milestones

Milestones are reference points for what most children do. We never score or compare.

Feelings & Comfort

  • ClapsBy 15 months
  • Shows you affection with hugs, cuddles or kissesBy 15 months
  • Hugs a stuffed toy or dollBy 15 months
  • Notices when someone is upset, by looking or going quietBy 16 months
  • Moves away to explore and checks that a caregiver is nearbyBy 18 months
  • Gets upset at separations, and settles again with your helpBy 18 months

Limits & Cooperation

  • Helps you when you need it, like picking up something you droppedBy 18 months
  • Makes a choice when you offer two thingsBy 18 months
  • Calms back down after a tantrum, with you close byBy 18 months

Talking & Understanding

  • Uses one or two wordsBy 15 months
  • Follows a simple direction with words and a gestureBy 15 months
  • Points to ask for something or get helpBy 15 months
  • Tells you what they want by pointing, pulling, or making soundsBy 15 months
  • Looks at a familiar object when you name itBy 15 months
  • Looks around for an object when asked “where”By 18 months
  • Follows a one-step direction without a gestureBy 18 months
  • Points to share something interestingBy 18 months
  • Uses pointing to request, comment, or seek informationBy 18 months
  • Shakes head for “no” and nods for “yes”By 18 months
  • Understands and uses words for common people, objects, and actionsBy 18 months
  • Identifies at least one body partBy 18 months
  • Uses gestures when excited or playfulBy 18 months
  • Uses at least three words besides parent namesBy 18 months

Speaking Clearly

  • Tries to say words, often only part of the word, like “ba” for ballBy 15 months
  • Combines long sound strings, syllables, and words with speech-like rhythmBy 18 months

Early Literacy

  • Laughs, squeals and babbles while enjoying a favorite bookBy 17 months
  • Looks at several book pages with an adultBy 18 months
  • Brings you a book to readBy 18 months
  • Says some of the words in songs and rhymesBy 18 months

Exploring & Discovering

  • Tries to use things the right way, like a phone, cup, or bookBy 15 months
  • Hands you a toy for help when it won't workBy 16 months
  • Plays with toys in a simple way, like pushing a toy carBy 18 months
  • Explores materials with different textures, like sand, water or doughBy 18 months

Logic & Numbers

  • Stacks at least two small objects, like blocksBy 15 months
  • Keeps trying a hard task after seeing you keep tryingBy 15 months
  • Compares amounts, using words or gestures for lots, more or the sameBy 18 months

Pretend & Imitate

  • Copies another child’s action during playBy 15 months
  • Copies everyday household routinesBy 18 months
  • Pretends one simple action, like sipping from an empty cupBy 18 months

Doing It Myself

  • Tries to use a spoonBy 18 months
  • Drinks from an open cup, with some spillsBy 18 months
  • Puts hands out for you to wash themBy 18 months
  • Helps with dressing, like pushing an arm through a sleeveBy 18 months

Knowing Myself

  • Shows you something they likeBy 15 months

Nara is educational and doesn’t assess or diagnose. If you’re worried, talk to your child’s doctor.

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